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 Is premarital sex wrong? (advice)
Grace (female)
 Posted on: Wednesday, July 5th, 2017, 2:09 pm
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Is premarital sex wrong?
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“For this is what God wills, . . . that you abstain from
fornication.”— 1 Thessalonians 4:3.

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Some cultures tolerate sexual activity between consenting
unmarried adult individuals. In some areas it is viewed as
acceptable for unmarried adolescents to engage in some forms of
sexual intimacy.

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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

The Bible uses the word “fornication” for some forms of sexual
activity outside marriage. God expects his worshippers to “abstain
from fornication.” ( 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Fornication is listed as a
serious sin, as are adultery, spiritism, drunkenness, idolatry,
murder, and thievery.— 1 Corinthians 6:9, 10; Revelation 21:8.
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WHY IT MATTERS

For one thing, the Bible warns that “God will judge
fornicators.” ( Hebrews 13:4) More important, by obeying God’s
laws about sexual morality, we prove our love for Jehovah God. (1
John 5:3) He in turn blesses those who observe his
commandments.—Isaiah 48:18.

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Is it immoral for unmarried people to engage in any form
of sexual intimacy?


“Let fornication and uncleanness of every sort or greediness
not even be mentioned among you.”— Ephesians 5:3.

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WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Many people believe that apart from sexual intercourse, there is
nothing wrong with sexual intimacies between unmarried
partners.

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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

When discussing immoral sexual practices, the Bible mentions not
only fornication but also sexual “uncleanness” and “loose
conduct.” ( 2 Corinthians 12:21) Clearly, there are various forms of
sexual intimacy that are offensive to God when performed outside
marriage, even when there is no intercourse.
The overall message of the Bible regarding sex is that sexual
intimacies are restricted to a man and a woman who are married
to each other. The Bible also disapproves of “covetous sexual
appetite.” ( 1 Thessalonians 4:5)
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What does that mean? Consider an
example that could apply equally to a man or a woman: A woman
might be determined not to have intercourse with her boyfriend.
Still, she engages in other forms of sexual intimacy with him. By
doing so, they are coveting or lusting after something that does
not belong to them. Hence, they are guilty of “covetous sexual
appetite.” Such sexual greed is condemned in the Bible.—
Ephesians 5:3-5.

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How can you avoid sexual immorality?

“Flee from fornication.”—1 Corinthians 6:18.

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WHY IT MATTERS

According to the Bible, those who engage in premarital sex are in
danger of losing their friendship with God.— Colossians 3:5, 6.

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WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

The Bible advises people to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians
6:18) This means that a person needs to stay as far away as
possible from anything that could lure him or her into sexual
immorality. ( Proverbs 22:3) For instance, in order to remain
morally clean, it is vital for one to avoid close association with
people who ignore God’s principles related to sex. The Bible
warns: “He that is walking with wise persons will become wise,
but he that is having dealings with the stupid ones will fare badly.”
— Proverbs 13:20.

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Feeding the mind with immoral thoughts can also lead to sexual
misconduct. ( Romans 8:5, 6) Thus, it is wise to avoid music,
videos, printed material, and anything else that improperly
portrays sexual activity or that in any way promotes sexual
conduct that offends God.
— Psalm 101:3.
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 Posted on: Tuesday, September 5th, 2017, 12:50 am
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Personally, i see nothing wrong with premarital sex. Sex is a bond and the reason why i think premarital sex should be discouraged is the trauma that comes with bonding with someone you love and then breaking the bond by cheating on you, sharing the sanctity of your romance and love with someone else. The same way one feels when a heart broken partner feel, whether married or single feels is what one will feel when cheated on. But here's where the caveat is, if you're single, there's absolutely no law that binds to be faithful to your partner, it solely rests on your partners decision and that's why the Bible warns against premarital sex. It's actually for your own good and piritual cleanliness. But if you and your partner are faithful and are dedicated to each other with the sole aimbof getting married someday, i seriously don't see anything wrong with premarital sex.
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 Posted on: Tuesday, September 5th, 2017, 12:47 pm
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QUOTE (Ifedith @ Monday, September 4th, 2017, 11:51 pm (UTC))
Personally, i see nothing wrong with premarital sex. Sex is a bond and the reason why i think premarital sex should be discouraged is the trauma that comes with bonding with someone you love and then breaking the bond by cheating on you, sharing the sanctity of your romance and love with someone else. The same way one feels when a heart broken partner feel, whether married or single feels is what one will feel when cheated on. But here's where the caveat is, if you're single, there's absolutely no law that binds to be faithful to your partner, it solely rests on your partners decision and that's why the Bible warns against premarital sex. It's actually for your own good and piritual cleanliness. But if you and your partner are faithful and are dedicated to each other with the sole aimbof getting married someday, i seriously don't see anything wrong with premarital sex.

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Yes o, i love sex alot but I've never cheated on my partner. Not even once. I don't even get into a relationship without thinking about marriage. So in other words i don't have sex outside my partner. Same thing with marriage. ..so? Except for spiritual cleanliness. It's really a major setback on that aspect. So my advice if you're not ready to have sex, don't engage in Romantic relationship, simple.
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Love you for truth bro. @Ifedith
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 Posted on: Tuesday, September 5th, 2017, 1:01 pm
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Yeah, I'm very blunt and truthful, sometimes it hurts though but lying is so difficult for me. I just talk am as he be me, no editing. No time for hypocrisy and holier than thou.
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